zondag 17 januari 2010

What girls find attractive in a guy

Want to know how to use validation and approval to attract girls? Read on to see how!

A lot of men are able to talk to girls for hours and be completely oblivious to certain signals of sexual attraction that a girl is giving out.

That's the single biggest reason most men end conversations with girls only to think later, "I thought it went well, but i guess she just wasn't attrcated to me."

The truth is, a lot of these conversations that those men had when they wanted to attract girls, would have gone a far lot better if the guys would have noticed certain signals like the one's i will explain right now.

But first, let's define validation and approval. We can group them together as one single concept.

Imagine you're talking to a girl who is very attractive. You want to attract her, you've been chatting to her for a while now, and halfway through the conversation you make her laugh, and as she starts laughing, she touches your arm, in fact she punches you playfully on the arm and says:

"You're amazing and so funny! In fact, i think you're the most interesting guy in the room right now! I feel really attracted to you."

Now how good would that make you feel? Pretty damn good right!? You see, you've just been approved of AND validated by this girl and it's given you a stack of positive emotions!

When you want to attract girls you need to do two things. Firstly, try and avoid seeking validation and approval from them. Secondly, pay attention for the times when the girl you're chatting to is looking for validation and approval from you, so you can capitalize on the situation.

How can you tell when a girl you're attracted to is looking for validation and approval from you?

If she asks you a question or makes a statement such as " I want to be a model but i don't know if i have the right look, what do you think?" or she asks for permission to do something that doesn't normally require her to ask permission for. Such as " Is it okay if i ask you a question?"

What she is doing is wanting you to find her attractive, and normally women won't be too blatant about this, so you really need to look for the non-verbal signs. When you attract a girl and she starts flicking her hair or playing with it, that's a good one.

By spotting these kind of signals of a girl looking for validation and approval from you, then it's guaranteed that she finds you of high value, sexually attractive and wants you.

Just bear in mind that whenever you're looking to attract girls and wondering if any of them like you, that any validation and approval signals from her will give you the answers.

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